想必各位90后的寶寶們，會感慨為啥時間那么快，我“老”了嗎?未來，我們這些新生代啥該去學(xué)呢?對于這個問題，美國知乎是這樣說的，和威久留學(xué)小編來看看吧!

20幾歲，對于全世界的人來說都是人生中重要的10年。美國知乎Quora上面有一個熱門問題叫：What are the most difficult and useful things people have to learn in their 20s?

也就是20幾歲的人最該學(xué)也最難學(xué)的是什么?

給大家篩選出7點好評的回答，希望能在這重要的人生節(jié)點幫到大家哦~

—1—以后的人生并不是單線競爭

There are always going to be people who are smarter, better looking, more sociable, and just all around "better" than you.

總會有比你聰明，比你好看，比你更擅長社交的人，到處都是比你好的人。

In fact, you'll learn there are LOTS of people who fit that description. To be happy, then, you have to learn to accept yourself and your shortcomings.

事實上，許多人的確名副其實。開心點，你要學(xué)著接受自己和自己的缺點。

—2—別把“努力”和“天賦”分開來看

Success does indeed come from hard work.

成功的確需要努力。

Hard work without talent doesn't ensure success, but talent without hard work ensures mediocrity.

缺乏天賦只靠努力可能不會成功，但是只靠天賦不努力，注定碌碌無為。

—3—有志者，并非事竟成

It's unlikely you'll become anything close to your wildest ambitions, simply because you'll learn everyone has big ambitions, and there's only so many slots in this world.

你不太可能實現(xiàn)你最大的夢想，因為你會知道每個人都有大大的夢想，而世界上只有那么多位子。

—4—重新認(rèn)識金錢&人際關(guān)系

Idealism aside, money = opportunity and therefore matters.

別太理想主義，錢就等于機會，所以錢很重要。

Relationships and power matter more.

人際關(guān)系和權(quán)力更重要。

—5—你的生活終究是自己一個人的

Friendship isn't forever.

友誼不是永遠(yuǎn)的。

Social and economic status does create divides and strains in even the oldest relationships.

即使在最長久的朋友之間，社會地位和經(jīng)濟狀況也會造成你們之間的分歧和關(guān)系緊張。

—6—父母可能沒做對，但他們努力了

Your parent(s) basically gave up their freedom to raise you, and deserve a medal.

你的父母基本上是放棄了他們的自由來把你養(yǎng)大的，他們值得你的認(rèn)可。

You know this because with only one job on your plate, you already have no time.

這一點你應(yīng)該很清楚，因為你現(xiàn)在只做一份工作都已經(jīng)焦頭爛額了。

—7—總會有新問題

Adult life is about learning to live with ambiguity.

成年人的生活是飄忽不定的。

Remember when you thought you'd have it all sorted out by 30?

還記得你曾經(jīng)想30歲的時候你就能完全搞定自己的生活嗎?

No, whether it be your career, your relationships or your beliefs, you will always question whether you are making the right choices and will have to deal with reGREt.

不會的，不管是事業(yè)、情感還是價值觀，你始終都會質(zhì)疑自己到底有沒有做出對的選擇，而且將一直面對自己的遺憾。

所以在感慨人生的同時，還不如“擼起袖子加油干”。何況努力都不一定回報很多，就別說不努力了?天上是不會掉金餡餅的呀!